During their floral-strewn meal in a suite at Hawaii’s Trump Hotel, Phillips, 46, surprised the star, 58, by dropping on one knee and asking her to marry him. But he told her, “I don’t have a ring for you,” Jackson tells PEOPLE. “I said, ‘Well, that’s okay. I don’t care about a ring.’”

Then dessert was served. “When I lifted (the lid) for the dessert, there was the ring,” she says. Click here to check it out.

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