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The Black Mother Wound: Dealing with Mother’s Day When You Have a Mother Wound

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Mother's Day can feel like a minefield when your relationship with your mother has been painful or distant. Society tells us to celebrate with flowers and praise, but what if that’s not your truth? You don’t have to pretend. You don’t have to perform. You are allowed to be honest about how you feel.

Instead of being swept up in the pressure and performance, start focusing on what’s real for you. This week, pay attention to what lifts you. Celebrate the people and the progress that remind you you’re loved, seen, and growing. Let your joy come from within, not from forced expectations.

And if sadness shows up—let it. Feel it. Care for yourself with compassion, not shame. Healing doesn’t mean you never hurt. It means you know how to care for yourself when you do.

This Mother’s Day, center yourself. You get to define what this day means to you now. And that, in itself, is powerful.

In this episode, we talk about how to care for yourself before and during Mother’s Day, especially if your relationship with your mom is painful or complicated. I share why it’s important to be honest about how I really feel, stop telling fake stories, and stay grounded in my truth. Instead of forcing happiness or pretending everything’s okay, I offer real ways to comfort yourself, feel your feelings, and find joy in your own life. This is a gentle, honest conversation to help you stay grounded during a tough time.

Topics Covered:

(00:00:00) Episode Snippet

(00:00:12) Welcome to The Black Mother Wound Podcast

(00:04:24) Be honest about how you feel

(00:05:59) Society can confuse your real feelings

(00:07:35) Mine for good feelings

(00:09:28) You create your feelings

(00:20:31) The fantasy is your underdeveloped ego

(00:22:54) Your responsibility is to you

(00:23:42) Resolve doors are open

(00:24:50) Fireside Chat Question

Key Takeaways:

“Healing really is about taking back control of your own mind.”

DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed psychologist, medical doctor, or health care professional and my services do not replace the care of psychologists, doctors or other healthcare professionals. All opinions expressed here are my own. If you feel you are in any danger of harming yourself please call 911. I am not providing health care, medical or nutritional therapy services, or attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental or emotional issue, disease or condition. All opinions are my own and based on my personal lived experience.

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Ep 060: Dealing with Mother’s Day When You Have a Mother Wound May 6, 2025

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May 10, 2026

Pretty Private: Bernie Mac's Daugher Je'Niece McCullough Is Keeping Her Father's Legacy Alive Part 1

The Black Effect Presents... Pretty Private with Eboné!

On this deeply personal episode of Pretty Private with Eboné, Je’Niece McCullough, daughter of the late comedy legend Bernie Mac, opens up about what it was like growing up with a father who was larger than life both on and off the stage. She shares intimate memories of her upbringing, takes listeners behind the scenes of Bernie Mac’s rise to success, and reflects on the moment she first noticed changes in his health — offering a rare perspective on a chapter many fans never saw.

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PRETTY OPEN: Bernie Mac's Daugher Je'Niece McCullough Is Keeping Her Father's Legacy Alive Part 1 Feb 2, 2026

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May 09, 2026

Class Rank

This week on Brilliant Idots, Loren Lorosa joins Charlamagne tha God and they break down Complex's 2026 Most Powerful People in Hip Hop Media list. Is DJ Akademics the rightful No. 1? Is DJ Hed and Gina Views criminally underranked? And where does Breakfast Club fit in a landscape where hip hop is pop culture? Plus, Isaiah Rashad's return, the Rihanna x Sheinelle Jones Met Gala moment everyone's talking about, Taraji and Jenifer Lewis calling out the Met Gala, and the US Census interracial couple rankings that took the whole show off the rails. ************************************ Sponsor Brilliant Idiots: ⁠⁠https://public.liveread.io/media-kit/brilliant-idiots⁠⁠ Jess Hilarious - Til Death Do We Parent - ⁠Pre Order⁠ 2Chainz - The Voice in my head is God - ⁠⁠Pre Order⁠⁠ The Black Family Who Built America - Cheryl McKissack Daniel -⁠⁠Order Link⁠⁠ Uncommon Favor - Dawn Staley - ⁠⁠Order Link⁠⁠ Get Honest or Die Lying Why Small Talk Sucks- By Charlamagne Tha God - ⁠⁠Order Link⁠⁠ Check out Andrew Schulz - ⁠⁠www.theandrewschulz.com⁠⁠ Check out all the podcast on Charlamagne's "Black Effect Network" - ⁠⁠https://blackeffect.com⁠⁠ Checks out AlexxMedia ⁠AM Mornings⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 08, 2026

FULL SHOW: Druski Says British Actors Are Taking All The Roles 🤣 + Dana White & Trap Dickey Interview

Today on The Breakfast Club, Dana White Talks UFC Freedom 250, Relationship With Trump, WHCD Shooting, 'Power Slap,' Zuffa Boxing. And Trap Dickey Talks 'The Ville,' South Carolina Upbringing, Music Career & Following The Blueprint. Plus, it’s Friday, so we opened the phone lines for callers to give the People’s Donkey. Listen for more!

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May 08, 2026

Mother’s Day Reflections & Kodak Black’s Legal Trouble

On this episode of The Latest with Loren LoRosa, Loren kicks off Mother’s Day weekend reflecting on family traditions, generational love, and why getting older changes how we value the people who raised us. She also shares an important mental health resource for anyone navigating grief during the holiday season.

Then, Loren breaks down the latest legal drama surrounding Kodak Black after exclusively reporting on his recent arrest in Florida tied to alleged drug trafficking charges. From the Instagram evidence police say connects him to the case, to his attorney Bradford Cohen claiming Kodak is being targeted, Loren dives into the court appearance, bond decision, and what this could mean for the rapper moving forward.

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May 08, 2026

The People's Donkey

Plus, it’s Friday, so we opened the phone lines for callers to give the People’s Donkey. Listen for more!

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May 08, 2026

INTERVIEW: Trap Dickey Talks 'The Ville,' South Carolina Upbringing, Music Career & Following The Blueprint + More

Today on The Breakfast Club, Trap Dickey Talks 'The Ville,' South Carolina Upbringing, Music Career & Following The Blueprint. Listen For More!

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May 08, 2026

INTERVIEW: Dana White Talks UFC Freedom 250, Relationship With Trump, WHCD Shooting, 'Power Slap,' Zuffa Boxing + More

Today on The Breakfast Club, Dana White Talks UFC Freedom 250, Relationship With Trump, WHCD Shooting, 'Power Slap,' Zuffa Boxing. Listen For More!

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May 08, 2026

Boss Moves & Breaking Points: Black Women, Business & Boundaries

This episode of The Latest with Loren LoRosa comes straight from Miami at the Accelerate Her Awards — a powerful gathering of Black women leaders, entrepreneurs, and change-makers. Loren sits down with beauty founder Melissa Butler and content creator/entrepreneur Jenee Naylor for an honest conversation about success, burnout, boundaries, confidence, and what it really takes to build a brand while protecting your peace.

From hustle culture and breaking points to navigating visibility, leadership, money, and self-worth, this episode pulls back the curtain on entrepreneurship in a way that feels raw, relatable, and inspiring. The ladies also open up about failures behind the scenes, learning resilience, and why Black women deserve rest, wellness, and wealth.

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May 07, 2026

FULL SHOW: EJ Johnson Says Beyoncé, Rihanna & More 'Did Not Eat' On Met Gala Carpet + Mýa Interview

Today on The Breakfast Club, Mýa Talks Creative Freedom, Navigating the Industry, Independence. Plus, Charlamagne Gives Donkey of The Day To A Florida Woman Who Was Arrested For Kicking A Child During A Youth Football Game. Listen for more!

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May 07, 2026